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		<title>Comment on Learning from Life by juliediamond</title>
		<link>http://juliediamond.wordpress.com/2009/08/20/learning-from-life/#comment-34</link>
		<dc:creator>juliediamond</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Aug 2009 13:25:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Tim, you express the challenge succinctly! How to maintain the relational nature of feedback, given the power differentials, and not to resort to a judicial process. The other danger is that the feedback is seen as a conflict between the parties, that needs to be &#039;worked out.&#039; Sometimes feedback is about a conflict, and sometimes it&#039;s just, well, feedback. 
Like you, I don&#039;t have answers yet, but look forward to learning more.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Tim, you express the challenge succinctly! How to maintain the relational nature of feedback, given the power differentials, and not to resort to a judicial process. The other danger is that the feedback is seen as a conflict between the parties, that needs to be &#8216;worked out.&#8217; Sometimes feedback is about a conflict, and sometimes it&#8217;s just, well, feedback.<br />
Like you, I don&#8217;t have answers yet, but look forward to learning more.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Learning from Life by timspalding</title>
		<link>http://juliediamond.wordpress.com/2009/08/20/learning-from-life/#comment-33</link>
		<dc:creator>timspalding</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Aug 2009 08:31:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Julie,

I love your thinking around the need for feedback to be direct and consequential to the action, particularly linking it to natural consequences. This comes from parenting where the power differential that you mention also comes directly into play - the parent is in a more powerful position even if they are merely teaching a lesson.

The difficulty you highlight is that the power differential in this case is reversed - where the teacher is looking for a &quot;lesson&quot; from the learner, i.e. feedback on their performance. Or maybe they are not, or are not open to receiving it, and thus may be tempted to use their rank, power and privelege to protect themselves from the &quot;lesson&quot;. 

I am sure that the accrediting body you are working with will be looking for greivance/disciplinary procedures to protect both faculty and student and I am wondering how this can be achieved in a way that allows the PWI approach of dealing with a conflict between people directly and that protects both parties to the conflict from real fears of being intimidated by the other&#039;s power. The institutions I work with start with the interpersonal approach of both parties trying to work out an issue but quickly move on to some form of investigating and judicial authority - in some instances it is appropriate to go straight to the higher authority. 

As a former student of PWI I like the fact that there wasn&#039;t this emphasis on appealing to higher authority, however, I am aware that the lack of this did also limit some more critical feedback that might have been given. Also when some critical feedback was given there was a feeling that there was a lack of consequence and nowhere to take it further.

I don&#039;t have answers to this and will give it more thought and I do love the way that you are approaching it!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Julie,</p>
<p>I love your thinking around the need for feedback to be direct and consequential to the action, particularly linking it to natural consequences. This comes from parenting where the power differential that you mention also comes directly into play &#8211; the parent is in a more powerful position even if they are merely teaching a lesson.</p>
<p>The difficulty you highlight is that the power differential in this case is reversed &#8211; where the teacher is looking for a &#8220;lesson&#8221; from the learner, i.e. feedback on their performance. Or maybe they are not, or are not open to receiving it, and thus may be tempted to use their rank, power and privelege to protect themselves from the &#8220;lesson&#8221;. </p>
<p>I am sure that the accrediting body you are working with will be looking for greivance/disciplinary procedures to protect both faculty and student and I am wondering how this can be achieved in a way that allows the PWI approach of dealing with a conflict between people directly and that protects both parties to the conflict from real fears of being intimidated by the other&#8217;s power. The institutions I work with start with the interpersonal approach of both parties trying to work out an issue but quickly move on to some form of investigating and judicial authority &#8211; in some instances it is appropriate to go straight to the higher authority. </p>
<p>As a former student of PWI I like the fact that there wasn&#8217;t this emphasis on appealing to higher authority, however, I am aware that the lack of this did also limit some more critical feedback that might have been given. Also when some critical feedback was given there was a feeling that there was a lack of consequence and nowhere to take it further.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t have answers to this and will give it more thought and I do love the way that you are approaching it!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Power &#8211; Force &#8211; Distance Redux by harndog</title>
		<link>http://juliediamond.wordpress.com/2009/06/23/power-force-distance-redux/#comment-32</link>
		<dc:creator>harndog</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 19 Jul 2009 00:03:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Julie:

Very nice....

Currently I am just finishing up a chairperson role and my mental construct about power is &quot;I got to get more.&quot; In reading your blog, I am struck by the physicality of power: it&#039;s pull, the feeling of lust, the drive to possess. And, I used my power well,   addressed myself as chairperson not chairman, checked in with the people on my committee, asked the distrubers to give evidence in the manual for me to press their opinion against the person in charge, etc.

Now that I have resigned, I am just struck by the physical nature of my need. In addition, I just chuckle at the mental constructs around what I am left with after exercising power well... a body wanting possession....</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Julie:</p>
<p>Very nice&#8230;.</p>
<p>Currently I am just finishing up a chairperson role and my mental construct about power is &#8220;I got to get more.&#8221; In reading your blog, I am struck by the physicality of power: it&#8217;s pull, the feeling of lust, the drive to possess. And, I used my power well,   addressed myself as chairperson not chairman, checked in with the people on my committee, asked the distrubers to give evidence in the manual for me to press their opinion against the person in charge, etc.</p>
<p>Now that I have resigned, I am just struck by the physical nature of my need. In addition, I just chuckle at the mental constructs around what I am left with after exercising power well&#8230; a body wanting possession&#8230;.</p>
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		<title>Comment on The power of likeability by juliediamond</title>
		<link>http://juliediamond.wordpress.com/2009/03/10/the-power-of-likeability/#comment-31</link>
		<dc:creator>juliediamond</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Jun 2009 12:46:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Cindy. The sense of humanness in public servants, and what you call a &#039;mix of motives for power and good&#039; is one of the things I&#039;m aiming to explore in this blog. Getting past the deification of leaders, whether it means we elevate them unrealistically or criticize them for failing our expectations, the flip side of their humanness is our empowerment.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Cindy. The sense of humanness in public servants, and what you call a &#8216;mix of motives for power and good&#8217; is one of the things I&#8217;m aiming to explore in this blog. Getting past the deification of leaders, whether it means we elevate them unrealistically or criticize them for failing our expectations, the flip side of their humanness is our empowerment.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Role Models and Fallen Angels by juliediamond</title>
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		<dc:creator>juliediamond</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Jun 2009 12:43:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Is ‘role model’ another name for “forcing a human being to represent an archetype in my life or in our collective experience” ?

-- your comment makes me think that we do this all the time, wanting someone to live up to our expectations. When fame and publicity is factored in, it becomes a whole new ballgame.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Is ‘role model’ another name for “forcing a human being to represent an archetype in my life or in our collective experience” ?</p>
<p>&#8211; your comment makes me think that we do this all the time, wanting someone to live up to our expectations. When fame and publicity is factored in, it becomes a whole new ballgame.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Power &#8211; Force &#8211; Distance Redux by juderaven1</title>
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		<dc:creator>juderaven1</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Jun 2009 00:26:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>When I look back on the formulas first discussed in your previous blog entry, I am struck by the term  &#039;resistance&#039; - the limiting factor for the transfer of energy. As you point out, in terms of human interactions this is not a constant force, but a complex of variables. In conventional terms, the ability to influence one&#039;s environment in order to get things done is the result of the ability to overcome resistance: force. A more constructive of view is the collaborative style you are describing, which instead of force employs cooperation and assimilation, even surrender, in an approach analogous to the martial arts view of energy. In my own life I have experienced professional success to the extent that I have been able to become a good follower, a collaborator, a valued subordinate. Learning to fulfill this role has indeed been my school of self-esteem.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When I look back on the formulas first discussed in your previous blog entry, I am struck by the term  &#8216;resistance&#8217; &#8211; the limiting factor for the transfer of energy. As you point out, in terms of human interactions this is not a constant force, but a complex of variables. In conventional terms, the ability to influence one&#8217;s environment in order to get things done is the result of the ability to overcome resistance: force. A more constructive of view is the collaborative style you are describing, which instead of force employs cooperation and assimilation, even surrender, in an approach analogous to the martial arts view of energy. In my own life I have experienced professional success to the extent that I have been able to become a good follower, a collaborator, a valued subordinate. Learning to fulfill this role has indeed been my school of self-esteem.</p>
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		<title>Comment on force x distance/time = power by Power &#8211; Force &#8211; Distance Redux &#171; A User&#8217;s Guide to Power</title>
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		<dc:creator>Power &#8211; Force &#8211; Distance Redux &#171; A User&#8217;s Guide to Power</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Jun 2009 21:43:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] by juliediamond   My blog stats tell me that my most viewed post, by an extraordinary amount, is Power = force + distance/time.  Don&#8217;t remember it? I barely do either. It&#8217;s a little &#8220;back soon&#8221; post I [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] by juliediamond   My blog stats tell me that my most viewed post, by an extraordinary amount, is Power = force + distance/time.  Don&#8217;t remember it? I barely do either. It&#8217;s a little &#8220;back soon&#8221; post I [...]</p>
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		<title>Comment on Role Models and Fallen Angels by juderaven1</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Jun 2009 04:38:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is all about transference too, isn&#039;t it ? We transfer the burdens of various needs and disavowed processes to the other - our partner, our therapist, our boss, our favourite actor, etc. And wrapped up in what we transfer is our &quot;high dream&quot;, our idealized aspirations about relationships, which I am beginning to think is an ironic mis-naming - there is nothing more depressing than a thwarted high dream, and all high dreams are by nature thwarted to some degree. Is &#039;role model&#039; another name for &quot;forcing a human being to represent an archetype in my life or in our collective experience&quot; ?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is all about transference too, isn&#8217;t it ? We transfer the burdens of various needs and disavowed processes to the other &#8211; our partner, our therapist, our boss, our favourite actor, etc. And wrapped up in what we transfer is our &#8220;high dream&#8221;, our idealized aspirations about relationships, which I am beginning to think is an ironic mis-naming &#8211; there is nothing more depressing than a thwarted high dream, and all high dreams are by nature thwarted to some degree. Is &#8216;role model&#8217; another name for &#8220;forcing a human being to represent an archetype in my life or in our collective experience&#8221; ?</p>
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		<title>Comment on The power of likeability by cindy1957</title>
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		<dc:creator>cindy1957</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Apr 2009 19:40:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I was just cleaning up my desk and came across something from your blog I
printed and routed around last spring.  It made me want to visit your blog
again.  So, I did.

I wanted to respond to your comments about Nixon&#039;s awareness (I could not
sign in for some reason, so here are my thoughts, memories really). I was 16
years old and in the Canadian wilderness having the time of my life at
Outward Bound, when Nixon resigned.  When i came home, it wasn&#039;t just small
changes i saw in my personal world that marked my absense but a big change
in the biggest entity I was connected to, the US govenment.  

I have not really been a very political sort but I do recall when Nixon
wrote his autobiography years after he resigned, i read a review of it or an
interview with him.  I remember being completely taken by his humility and
sense of contrition.  I had very simplistic views of politics and little
appreciation for partisan politics or how they might have impacted my
opinion of him which was condemning in an adolescent sort of way.  But in
just reading that article, I felt a huge sense of compassion for him and
respect for his ability to come forward in public and acknowledge his sense
of responsibility and the impact his action had had on the country. 

It opened my eyes to what it meant to be a public servants and gave me
compassion for their vulnerability and culpability. It gave me a sense of
respect for them as human beings with short-comings, imperfect judgement and
also incredible courage to stand for so much and to be part of such a huge
and complex organization, finding their way through it, one career step at a
time, propelled by some mix of motives for power and for good, I think.

It is interesting, I will have to see the movie to see what other memories
it stirs.  Thanks for your blog and the stroll down memory lane. Hope this
falls within the scope of what people do when they respond to a blog. It&#039;s
my first time!

CT</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was just cleaning up my desk and came across something from your blog I<br />
printed and routed around last spring.  It made me want to visit your blog<br />
again.  So, I did.</p>
<p>I wanted to respond to your comments about Nixon&#8217;s awareness (I could not<br />
sign in for some reason, so here are my thoughts, memories really). I was 16<br />
years old and in the Canadian wilderness having the time of my life at<br />
Outward Bound, when Nixon resigned.  When i came home, it wasn&#8217;t just small<br />
changes i saw in my personal world that marked my absense but a big change<br />
in the biggest entity I was connected to, the US govenment.  </p>
<p>I have not really been a very political sort but I do recall when Nixon<br />
wrote his autobiography years after he resigned, i read a review of it or an<br />
interview with him.  I remember being completely taken by his humility and<br />
sense of contrition.  I had very simplistic views of politics and little<br />
appreciation for partisan politics or how they might have impacted my<br />
opinion of him which was condemning in an adolescent sort of way.  But in<br />
just reading that article, I felt a huge sense of compassion for him and<br />
respect for his ability to come forward in public and acknowledge his sense<br />
of responsibility and the impact his action had had on the country. </p>
<p>It opened my eyes to what it meant to be a public servants and gave me<br />
compassion for their vulnerability and culpability. It gave me a sense of<br />
respect for them as human beings with short-comings, imperfect judgement and<br />
also incredible courage to stand for so much and to be part of such a huge<br />
and complex organization, finding their way through it, one career step at a<br />
time, propelled by some mix of motives for power and for good, I think.</p>
<p>It is interesting, I will have to see the movie to see what other memories<br />
it stirs.  Thanks for your blog and the stroll down memory lane. Hope this<br />
falls within the scope of what people do when they respond to a blog. It&#8217;s<br />
my first time!</p>
<p>CT</p>
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		<title>Comment on Bit of this, bit of that by annejmurphy</title>
		<link>http://juliediamond.wordpress.com/2008/12/06/bit-of-this-bit-of-that/#comment-25</link>
		<dc:creator>annejmurphy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Apr 2009 13:19:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hello Julie

A bit of this and a bit of that so i hope you won&#039;t mind me raising a bit of something else...

Entitlement - is interesting me and I have been wondering what you might think of entitlement as a source of power

It is different (I think) to rank or status and similar as the sources are similar - social/status entitlement  - gender entitlement cultural entitlement even psychological I guess (or are they all?)

With focus on difficult economic conditions I have been hearing anecdotes about benefits (entitlements?) of executive teams being untouched while employee numbers are wound back

Do you think it is a part of rank/status or a different entity

Very best
Anne</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello Julie</p>
<p>A bit of this and a bit of that so i hope you won&#8217;t mind me raising a bit of something else&#8230;</p>
<p>Entitlement &#8211; is interesting me and I have been wondering what you might think of entitlement as a source of power</p>
<p>It is different (I think) to rank or status and similar as the sources are similar &#8211; social/status entitlement  &#8211; gender entitlement cultural entitlement even psychological I guess (or are they all?)</p>
<p>With focus on difficult economic conditions I have been hearing anecdotes about benefits (entitlements?) of executive teams being untouched while employee numbers are wound back</p>
<p>Do you think it is a part of rank/status or a different entity</p>
<p>Very best<br />
Anne</p>
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